Showing posts with label Mother's Day. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Mother's Day. Show all posts

Saturday, May 12, 2012

Mother's Day gift idea: Birth month flowers

As you may know by now, Mother's Day is tomorrow. If you are still stuck on what to get dear old mum, consider giving her mums!
Personally, I prefer to give gifts that last, such as potted flowers or books. They strike me as more personal, more meaningful, and they serve as a constant reminder of important events.

Calendula is the birth flower for October. 


After planting some calendula for Heather, I learned that the flower has some medicinal benefits. The flower can be used for pain relief from bee stings, and is also beneficial as an astringent. In addition, calendula has has anti-inflammatory effects, which can help the skin, and useful as a gargle for sore throats. All of this just added to the flower's special meaning as Heather's birth flower.

Here is a list of birth month flowers you could get for the moms in your life (don't forget grandmothers and the mother of your children). Make a lasting impression, and give a gift that will keep on giving, and growing.

January - Carnation
February - Violet
March - Daffodil
April - Sweet pea or Daisy
May - Lily of the Valley
June - Rose
July - Larkspur
August - Gladiolus or Poppy
September - Aster
October - Calendula
November - Chrysanthemum
December - Narcissus

I hope this helps make your last minute Mother's Day shopping a little bit easier.

Thank you moms for the gift of life! Cheers!

Saturday, April 28, 2012

Time to prune the lavender

It's human nature to not want to harm anything that is beautiful and natural, especially a delicate flower.  Sometimes, however, a little pain does have a lot of gain.  You may not want to do it, but it's about the right time of year to prune your lavender. 

I almost killed my lavender plants a couple of years ago because I had assumed that they should get pruned just like my roses.  I took my loppers and cut just about every bit of green off of the plant.  Then I read that I almost certainly killed them because of this violent mistake.  My wife reassured me that "living things want to live", and I kept my lavender stubs hoping that she was right.

As is usually the case, my wife was right.  I soon started to see little green nubs growing out from the truncated branches. Those nubs soon grew into fully-grown leaves, and before I knew it, my lavender plants were on the mend and growing just fine.  Once I was sure they could handle it, I moved them from the pots they were in to a bed in front of my house where they would get plenty of sun and grow into a nice hedge.

Out of guilt from my past abuses, I was reluctant to bring the shears even close to my lavender, and now I have an overgrown mangy beast.  I hate to say that about such a beautiful and fragrant flower, but it's true, and it's time to do the unthinkable... I need to prune it again.

BUT... now I know better.

To get the most out of my lavender, I need to trim it with garden shears a couple of times a year, up to about half of the plant.  This sounds harsh, but it has a few benefits:

1.  It keeps the lavender from looking ugly and brown.  This flower doesn't need a lot of maintenance to look its best, but it does need a haircut now and then.  The flowers turn brown if left on their own, and this defeats the purpose of having the lavender in the first place.


This is my lavender not quite looking its best. 

2.  Pruning also promotes new growth.  The new buds that appear after pruning are so vibrant, and they aren't competing with the mealy old flowers that are way past their prime.

3.  The trimmings can also be used for several purposes, so don't toss them in your green waste.  They can be simmered to add a relaxing aromatic ambiance to your home, they can be marinated in vodka or vinegar (for those of you who don't drink alcohol) to make a relaxing tincture, and lavender flowers can also add a floral sweetness to salads and cookies.

My wife loves coming home to a house smelling like lavender.  I highly recommend simmering your cuttings to create a spa-like atmosphere at home.  This might be a nice touch for Mother's Day, which is coming up fast.  Also, if you're in hot water with your significant other, this might help ease the tension a little, although I can't make any guarantees.

When it comes to pruning your lavender (or most plants), you will learn to get a feel for when it needs to be trimmed back.  By pruning it now, in early Spring, I'm expecting an early Summer bloom, and then I'll revisit it again later this year.  Pay attention to your plants, and they will tell you what they need.  Now I'm off to give my lavender a haircut, and give my wife a fragrant treat. 

Cheers!